Do you start fresh every morning, fail, then vow to begin again with the same old strategy?
While at the same time telling yourself that you’re not good enough, smart enough, or man enough to be a dad. I mean, what is the point of getting out of bed every morning.
We live in a world where being a dad has taken a back seat to the type of job you have, how much money is in your bank account, the clothes you wear, how many friends you have on your social media account, whether your kid made the top team in their respective sport, or if your spouse is drop dead gorgeous.
It is all revolving around the myths we have created and come to believe to be true.
Eventually, we start to believe these myths to be absolute or true. As this happens, we begin to detach ourselves from the very things that truly matter in our lives… Our CHILDREN, SPOUSE, FRIENDS, and COMMUNITY.
No wonder, soo many of us dads are lost. Our whole life we have come to believe that masculinity defines what it means to be a dad, it doesn’t matter if dad is present, moms are better parents, we must always be strong, or we can’t stay home with the kids.
We have lost what it means to be a dad.
We have stopped creating ourselves as dads.
We have been chasing and obtaining the very things that when we are on our death bed, we could care less about.
“If we are not careful, our future will simply be an extension of our past.”
Erwin Raphael McManus
It is time for YOU. Yes, YOU! To wake up and take action towards becoming the dad your children, spouse, friends, and community need you to be. The dad you deep down inside want to be.
It is time for you to live for something that is bigger than yourself.
It is time for you to ignore the negative self-talk.
It is time for you to stop giving into the myths.
It is time for you to embrace uncertainty.
It is time for you to be relentless.
Everdad is dedicated to the dads that are stressed out and have no energy. The dads who are struggling to connect with their children and spouse. The dads who are not showing up.
Stop talking about changing your ways. Do it! Take action!
I’m telling you right now! You have what it takes to be a dad that your children will cherish.
A dad that fights for his children, spouse, and family. A dad that shows up and takes action. A dad that leads from his heart and serves those in his life.
When you’re long gone and six-feet under, what do you want your children and their children to say about you?
Get started now!
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Donnie Boroff, M.A., CPC, ELI-MP, C-IQ is a father of four boys and husband with a passion for dads. A Dad Coach and founder of Everdad. With a Master’s Degree in Industrial Organizational Psychology along with being a Certified Professional Coach, Energy Leadership Index Master Practitioner, and Certified in Conversational Intelligence, he assists dads in exploring and discovering how they are showing up in their children’s lives.